Guzzy Rawks asked:


Me and my ex-girlfriend were in an amazing relationship, for 1 year and 3 months. There was so much love and fun and everything good! But in the past recent months, things grew a little stale where we still loved each other very much, but we never knew what to talk about. And we also got into arguements every now and then.

When she broke up with me, she said I was needy, and that I had these ocasional moodswings that would push her away. She says I stressed her out. But I changed so much for her. The only reason I always wanted to hang out with her was because she was always so busy, and if she would go so long without asking to hang out, I’d get upset because I would feel like she doesn’t want to spend time with me. And I made a promise to change, and I really feel like I did. I love her soooo much. And I know she loves me too. But I feel like all she remembers are the bad times and not the good. There’s too much to explain right now, but those are the basics of the situation.

It’s only been a week since we broke up, but one of her friends who is also good friends with me said that my ex girlfriend moved on. I just don’t believe that someone can move on from such a loving relationship in a week. She we see each other in school, we would say hi to each other and everything. And she said we would talk, but she doesn’t make an effort to. She sometimes has half smiles or full smiles when she waves at me, but not much else goes on.

I just need some hope. What can I do to make her come back? I really do believe we’re meant to be together. I can’t imagine myself without her. I love her too much to just simply let go.

I’ve heard of “No contact” , be positive around her, always smile, give it time, and pretend like nothing is wrong. Is there anything else I should know? Maybe from a girls perspective, what would make you come back? I don’t want to admit it, but I’m heartbroken, and will take any advice. Thank you so much.

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Kristi Workman asked:


My boyfriend and his ex-wife are still good friends and I appreciate and respect that. It is not often that people who are getting divorced can seperate and be civil. Especially since they have a daughter together. I respect that very much. But, I do feel uncomfortable about her using him as a shoulder to lean on, especially when she has her own boyfriend. But she would rather come to mine. I explained to him that I understand that he was the person she came to for support for 9 years, but she left. And when she left, she should have left that part of her life. Maybe I am being possesive, but I feel he is my shoulder now, not hers. I am trying to be fair and understanding, but I make sure and communicate my feelings and not keep them bottled up. He seems to feel I am overreacting. I have no doubt that he will never get back with her. I know he loves me. But when he doesn’t see my side, I sometimes feel like he is choosing her over me. They are not divorced yet. am i overreacting?

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Steve O asked:


We have recently seperated and are now living apart, we have been together 14yrs and part of me hopes that we will get back together but if not is it possible to remain friends after a amicable split with no third parties involved. we also have two children 4 and 8 so would like to try and remain good friends.

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shannon g asked:


Me and my wife separated 2 months ago. I am still madly in love with her. When and if we get a divorce I would love to remain friends as much *** possible. can this be done or do I need to forget?

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Eric asked:


My ex girlfriend and I were goin out for 5months til she broke up with me because she said she it wasn’t working out for us and that she thought she’d have a better chance with another guy. We’re still pretty good friends now and I really want to get her back. What should I do to get her back?

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