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How can you win your ex back without asking him?
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Just yesterday my bf broke up with me. He said we can stay as friends. I love him so much. I was begging him on the phone that we stay together. He came to my house as a friend after he told me that’s it over in dating and we spoke of we’re friends and will stay close. He was telling me he was having a hard time explaining and i still dont understand. he said about are differences, but I don’t see many. Any way, how can I get him back without asking him myself and begging him. I love him so much. What can I do?
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Does the ‘Reverse Rejection’ Tactic work to win back an ex. really?
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Okay so someone sent me an ebook to read… about how to win back an ex. It describes how everyone in the face of being dumped, automatically do ‘expected’ things because of the hurt and rejection. These turn out to be the opposite of what people should do… Instead of feeling hurt and trying to show their ex that they care and are hurting, they should instead stop all contact with them immediately (for at least 3-4 weeks) – this is because the negative aspects of the relationship will have been forgotten and then the ‘missing’ kicks in as they remember the good things. It says not to contact them under any circumstances before 3-4 weeks. If they contact you its ok. The whole idea about this book is that you can reverse the rejection so that they feel it instead. And something to do with push vs pull. If you wallow after a breakup it pushes them further away but if you reject the dumper, then they are supposed to try and pull you back?? Especially if they see you moving on with your life and possibly dating others (it says delete their number and all contact info except for Facebook or MSN because you can use those to put status updates that your ex will see that can help – nothing trashy that would make you look like a **** but things like “Out with So and So tonight be back later” )
Anyway, does this tactic work at all? Any better than trying to maintain contact?
I was with a guy who was very shy and things went well until recently, then he became distant and finally decided to leave. He still wanted to be friends but I knew that would be too difficult so I said no. Now, I *think* that he maybe got scared or that since he was shy I might have pushed things a bit too fast… but at first HE did the chasing!! All of it!! So if I try this tatcic will it reverse everything so he might do the chasing again? I am a bit leery of trying the reverse of everything my heart is telling me to do! It’s very hard to stop all contact!! But I dont want to be his friend… I want to be more!
I know that there is no 100% guarantee but just wondering if this tactic works better than what most people do (showing they are hurt, trying to make the ex feel guilty, etc)??? Guys in particular??
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Guys Question, how can i win my ex boyfriend back?
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Im 29 and he is 21..In a nut shell my partner broke up with me 2 months ago 2.09.08, we were living together for a year, we had a small studio flat but weren’t working and spent too much time together and were not getting the last few months before he left me.
I rang him the day after he moved back home to his mums and tried to work things out with him. He said the relationship has made him snappy and he can’t be in a relationship, that he needs to be alone.
We talked over the phone every night for the next 2 weeks and he decided we can date as friends only and see if it leads back into a relationship.
So we met up for the afternoons twice a week for 5 weeks and then i asked can we be in a relationship again to stop my worrying as i felt insecure not having him and i was so worried of him changing his mind about me again.
He agreed to go back out and said it was still too soon for him but will do it for me to stop me worrying.
We spent 3 weeks back together and he even started to stay a couple nights a week round my parents house with me.
The next day after leaving mine he text me saying
” i find this to hard to say on the phone,i’m still not happy being in a relationship.It has nothing to do with you, i just cant do it. I didn’t tell you because it hurts me too much to upset you but there’s nothing else i can do, I’m so sorry to do this to you.”
I left it a week and text him saying lets be friends and i don’t want to lose his friendship after all this time and explained were i thought we went wrong, he text me back 4 days later all in all it took him 10 days to make contact after sending me the first text dumping me.
The text said ”you mean so much to me Jess ,i will always try and be the best friend to u as i can, i am so sorry for everything, its been really hard for me. I just don’t know whats wrong with me.It hurts me so much to know your upset! I will always be there for you. x x x
Then got another text straight away saying ”Sorry it took me so long to get credit to text you back”
This was 2 days ago and I have not made contact yet. When we are happy together we have the best relationship ever! I love him very much and will do anything to try make it work.
I think I may of rang him too much in the last 2 months and if he didn’t answer i would ring back in a hour and text him to ring back too, i worried too much i can see that now. I think i may of chased him too much in the last 2 months and scared him off .
How do I tactfully win him back, what do i say, it is very important what i next say to him so i don’t scare him off.
Please please help as I am so upset and don’t want to give up on him yet, i am willing to try anything to make it work.
THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!! SORRY FOR THE LONG MESSAGE, ALOT TO EXPLAIN
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How do i get my ex to talk to me?
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We were friends for 7 months before we dated we broke up after a month and a half of dating and then we stopped talking as much. I don’t want to get back with him I am with someone that I love but I do miss him as a friend. Should I invite him to hang out with me and some friends or do I just give up on being his friend. We do talk sometimes but he gets mad and throws up girls. So i just want to know how we can be friends again? I kinda want my boyfriend with me if me and this guy hang out because I don’t want to be alone with him but is that a bad idea to bring me boyfriend?
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How do I get my ex girlfriend of 4 years back?
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She will not talk to me and her Mom told me I was a little childish ya I fixed that and she told the cops I was suicidal so I was in the hospital for a little while and she is the only thing I have all my friends dropped me and my family i and I don’t get along I NEED HER
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To Married Ladies: Would you let your husband be friends with his ex-wife?
Posted by: | CommentsThe ex-wife is suffering from anxiety and depression. She is now in a relationship, but sometimes finds comfort from talking to your husband. None of the mushy stuff, just plain moral support. The husband has been totally honest about it to her wife. Is there anything wrong with this?
The husband didn’t have any kids with the ex.
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How would you approach your ex wife/husband if they STILL love you, but now that you found someone new and are in love but you don’t want your ex in your personal life with this new partner how would you approach it. My ex wife left me for someone else and it’s been a few months since she’s been saying that she stills loves me and can’t forgive her self and BLAH BLAH BLAH, I just couldn’t forgive her and divorce her end of story. I just want to avoid having problems with this beautiful girl that I met. Would you tell your ex straight?, would you try to be friends first and then tell her? I just feel that HELL is on it’s way.
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Are you friends with your husband or wife’s ex?
Posted by: | CommentsDo you get along with his or her ex or do you prefer to keep her/him out of your life?
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Would befriend your spouses/companions ex-wife or ex-husband?
Posted by: | CommentsHow do I get my ex boyfriend back? Please help?
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About a month ago my bf and i broke up it was kinda a mutual split tho alot of rumors were circling and i believed 2 of them the first was that he was hiting on another girl and trying to cheat on me the second was that he was going to break up with me so naturaly i wanted it over as quickly as possible so nobody would feel any heartbreak. By lunch we were together still and i pulled him aside spoke calm and rational told him that things wurnt working out about the rumors and everything when he realized what was going on he started to agree and then he said so its over and i shook my head yes then he said so we can still be friends right and i said yes and we went our seprate ways. And then by 4th hour i was missing him nearly in tears because there is a gaping hole in my heart and still is and know i want him back i dream of him everynight and cry i am InLove with him. Please help me!!
Questions:
Did he break up with me or me with him?
How do i get him back ?
Any others im not thinking of
Also:
Yes I am sure im InLove with him.
I am 13 and in the 8th grade.
So is he.
He is my first love.
Yes im sure.
How he acts around me is
He stares at me.
Looks in my eyes then looms down at the ground.
He trys to make me laugh.
He trys to be closer to me at lunch.
Brushes by me in the halls
Mimics people when im impressed with them.
Listens to my conversations
Ect.
Does he still like me?
Oh and he has said i love you before
by the way every1 i no who started the rumors it was my suppost2be best friend (gosphil) singer/songwritler Emily Carey she got jelsous and i belived her when she told me the gossip but she was just being petty because she is usally in the spotlight and we had gotten into a fight and after everything was fine she told me that.
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