Roxanne Eldritch asked:


I have been trying to win back my ex boyfriend. He flirts with me all the
time and wants to hang out with me. First off, let me mention that he broke
up with me in November. We avoided eachother almost all November. I found
out from one of his friends that he broke up with me because I was being too
“clingy”. After I heard that I asked my ex to meet me somewhere to talk. He
agreed. I told that I felt like he didn’t trust me, so that’s why I started
to hang out with him more in order to prove to him I’m loyal. It was
interesting cause after that he said he felt like that I didn’t trust him
either, so since late November to now we have gotten along really well. Even
though I know we “just friends” it doesn’t feel like that to me because like
I said he flirts with me and hangout with me alot.

I remember a few days ago we were talking about our friends, and he was
surpised when I told him one of our friends is back with that guy again. He
told me he thinks it’s impossible for people who were dating and then broke
up, dating AGAIN. So, then I said, “Would you ever get back with your ex?”
He said, “That would be very hard for me to do.” Then I said, “Oh.” He
replied, “But don’t worry I still love you.”

Okay, basically what I want to ask if you ever get the chance is, what does
it mean when he says,”That would be very hard for me to do?” Does that mean
I have no chance in getting him back? Plus I’m having a Valentine’s Party
this weekend and I hope I can use my party to somehow get him back. Can you
help me?

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lizabeth100 asked:


My boyfriend said he loved me we were together for two years and then out of the blue he says he just wants to be friends. A few days prior to that he said he was never going to break up with me and he wanted us to work out. then he breaks up saying that we are too young and he wants to see other people. idk what to do. i just want him back. he always treats me like **** but i take it all in cuz i love him

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confusedchicky asked:


On and off for a year and a half I was dating this guy, but we were not exclusive. While I thought things were progressing toward a committed relationship, he was seeing someone else. Last summer the girl found out about me and gave him an ultimatum. He stopped seeing me and committed himself to her.

Though it was not a bad breakup and we parted on good terms, I was heartbroken because I loved him. We have been apart for six months and have talked from time to time but when we did his girlfriend found out and would call me and threaten me. She also would scream at him and start a fight. Out of respect for him, I decided to stop calling.

A few days ago he called me out of the blue after six months and confessed that he wants out of his relationship because his girlfriend is jealous and controlling. He said he has never cheated on her since he decided to commit to her this summer. I believe him. We talked on the phone for a while and he came over to talk–We only talked and he was hinting that he wanted more.

Should I take back this guy that broke my heart?
I’m 27 and looking for the guy I will marry…. not for a rebound hook up….

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kj asked:


My ex wife now and I were togather for 4 years, married 3 years have a 2 year old daughter and have been married and divorced twice in the period. Last divorce was Sept 20. We love each other still to this day, but she has pushed her self away from me and now she is dating a young man from her church about 2 months now. She actually went o phildephia with t meet some of his family. I think thats kinda quick to do that but supposably he asked her and she went. This is destroying me inside. She tells me its not like when me and her were togather, that its more of a friendship the relationshipwith him. I feel like I am really dieing inside and I would do anything to get her back and really work on our family. I mean we speak almost everyday at leat once and we have been intamite a few days ago, but she told me not to use that against her of she wants to go out with this other guy. I mean what should I do? I feel like im being taken advantage of. Do I have falso hopes? Do you honestly think its possible for us to get back togather again?
well we have been thorugh alot of stuff from a wedding disater to not closing on our 1st home in april of this year. She told me in auagust she doesnt think i will change and she that she cant do it anymore. We have been seperated before but it has been nothing like this. Its going on 3months now ans she is still being like this. She told me to wait until Jan 1st and maybe we can re unite and start fresh, but for me not to get my hopes up. So its like a 50/50 shot I guess. Its been to painful to wait so long so I aske her if she is not in love with mr anymore and that if we arent going to get back togather then let me know now instead of dragging it out until jan.1. She said if she said that, that she would be lying and that she needs time t think about this. Thats why she wants to wait till the 1st of jan. I guess somedays I think we will turn things around and other days i feel she is gone. When we see each other I have to iniciate the kiss other wise we wont kiss. im lost?
She sometimes calls me real late night crying and asking why this had to happen. I try to tell her we can work things out if we really try. She gets bad and sounds real bitter sometimes. Its hurts and other times she is nice. I dont know what to do to chnage her back to the nice person she was. I dont even think she really likes this other guy. Her dad thinks he is a good fit for her because he goes to her church and he seems to start going to school and doing something for himself. I have to degrees from college and am a good guy also. I dont know why we are here. I just needsome guidence in this tribulation in my life because one day I feel ok then the other I know she is probabky hangin with him and I feel sick to my stomach. I mean my daughter sees him more then she sees me now and thats killing me. She doesnt even reconize me anymore.

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Mrs. Pattinson asked:


So I really care about my ex-boyfriend. I can honestly say ive never felt this way about any guy I ever dated. Heres my story of what happened…

We are in college, He lives directly across the hall from me. He was in my room one night and texted me “wanna go get something to eat?” so i was like of course! He took me to this pizza place and put his arm around me and I new he was trying to kiss me but instead I said, wanna go back to the dorm? We did and that night he was talking to my suitemates and told them that he really liked me. We started hooking up that two weeks later he asked me out. three weeks later we broke up but continued hooking up until November 9.

Now, we were hooking up EVERY DAY from September to november. He made me feel like I was the only girl he was seeing because he told me he was crazy about me and he asked me…are you hooking up with other people? I told him of course not and then i asked him and he told me no. He took me out in public a couple times and we would always kiss and hold hands and kiss WHENEVER WE LEFT EACHOTHER

Now, i return to school one sunday and see hickeys all over his neck..i confront him and he laughs it off. I see photos on facebook of him making out with this girl from a club he met that night. I later find out that he had *** with her on that friday along with another girl the previous night. I then found out he hooked up with a couple people during the time we were hooking up.

I screamed at him…ive been devasted for almost one month and i cant stop thinking about him and it hurts because i feel like he doesnt give a **** about me anymore.

He told my friend that he genuinly liked me but now he just cant anymore.
I want him back…i never realized how depressed i would be that were not together.
Im transferring next semester and only have a few days left here and i want to tell him that i want to be with him.

How can i do this without sounding stupid. please help me =/

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