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My ex wife now and I were togather for 4 years, married 3 years have a 2 year old daughter and have been married and divorced twice in the period. Last divorce was Sept 20. We love each other still to this day, but she has pushed her self away from me and now she is dating a young man from her church about 2 months now. She actually went o phildephia with t meet some of his family. I think thats kinda quick to do that but supposably he asked her and she went. This is destroying me inside. She tells me its not like when me and her were togather, that its more of a friendship the relationshipwith him. I feel like I am really dieing inside and I would do anything to get her back and really work on our family. I mean we speak almost everyday at leat once and we have been intamite a few days ago, but she told me not to use that against her of she wants to go out with this other guy. I mean what should I do? I feel like im being taken advantage of. Do I have falso hopes? Do you honestly think its possible for us to get back togather again?
well we have been thorugh alot of stuff from a wedding disater to not closing on our 1st home in april of this year. She told me in auagust she doesnt think i will change and she that she cant do it anymore. We have been seperated before but it has been nothing like this. Its going on 3months now ans she is still being like this. She told me to wait until Jan 1st and maybe we can re unite and start fresh, but for me not to get my hopes up. So its like a 50/50 shot I guess. Its been to painful to wait so long so I aske her if she is not in love with mr anymore and that if we arent going to get back togather then let me know now instead of dragging it out until jan.1. She said if she said that, that she would be lying and that she needs time t think about this. Thats why she wants to wait till the 1st of jan. I guess somedays I think we will turn things around and other days i feel she is gone. When we see each other I have to iniciate the kiss other wise we wont kiss. im lost?
She sometimes calls me real late night crying and asking why this had to happen. I try to tell her we can work things out if we really try. She gets bad and sounds real bitter sometimes. Its hurts and other times she is nice. I dont know what to do to chnage her back to the nice person she was. I dont even think she really likes this other guy. Her dad thinks he is a good fit for her because he goes to her church and he seems to start going to school and doing something for himself. I have to degrees from college and am a good guy also. I dont know why we are here. I just needsome guidence in this tribulation in my life because one day I feel ok then the other I know she is probabky hangin with him and I feel sick to my stomach. I mean my daughter sees him more then she sees me now and thats killing me. She doesnt even reconize me anymore.

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