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How can I get back with my ex boyfriend?
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Me and My ex boyfriend are juniors in highschool. He broke up with me back in July after being in a relationship for 9 months mostly because I was VERY clingy. I used to talk to him everyday when we were together and constantly wanted to be with him, but now i can go days without saying a word to him. We were extremely close to eachother and our family’s and we both really loved eachother. The breakup was rough especially for me since I was the one who got dumped and it was totally unexpected. We had no communication for almost 4 months until we started talking again back in november and now we hangout at least once a week. I mean I really care about this kid because since we broke up I kissed 5 different guys but i could care less about them, it just doesn’t feel the same. We still kiss eachother and “hookup” and when we’re together he treats me as if im still his girlfriend, he pays for me whenever we go out, cuddles with me, and he isn’t afraid to kiss me at school or in front of his close friends, he even holds my hand in public. I finally brought it up that I’m starting to have feelings for him again last night after we spent the night together and he took me home and i started to cry because i told him i still care for him and have feelings for him, he listened to me but told me he doesn’t think I have changed my old ways and said he needed to think. So today i talked to him and asked him if he had thought about what i said last night and he said “Yeah.. I do have feelings for you but I don’t want a relationship with you not yet at least, I need to figure things out.” is this a good thing? how can i get him back ? :/
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Guys how can I get my ex boyfriend back?
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Me and My ex boyfriend are juniors in highschool. He broke up with me back in July after being in a relationship for 9 months mostly because I was VERY clingy. I used to talk to him everyday when we were together and constantly wanted to be with him, but now i can go days without saying a word to him. We were extremely close to eachother and our family’s and we both really loved eachother. The breakup was rough especially for me since I was the one who got dumped and it was totally unexpected. We had no communication for almost 4 months until we started talking again back in november and now we hangout at least once a week. I mean I really care about this kid because since we broke up I kissed 5 different guys but i could care less about them, it just doesn’t feel the same. We still kiss eachother and “hookup” and when we’re together he treats me as if im still his girlfriend, he pays for me whenever we go out, cuddles with me, and he isn’t afraid to kiss me at school or in front of his close friends, he even holds my hand in public. I finally brought it up that I’m starting to have feelings for him again last night after we spent the night together and he took me home and i started to cry because i told him i still care for him and have feelings for him, he listened to me but told me he doesn’t think I have changed my old ways and said he needed to think. So today i talked to him and asked him if he had thought about what i said last night and he said “Yeah.. I do have feelings for you but I don’t want a relationship with you not yet at least, I need to figure things out.” is this a good thing? how can i get him back ? :/
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How do I get my ex boyfriend of 2 in half years back into my life?
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My ex and I started dating my junior year in highschool all the way up until I was a freshman in college. We were sooooo in love, and no one ever thought we would be apart. But things changed when we went away to school. I went away, and so did he. Things just became a complete mess. We used to spend everyday hanging out with each other and spend most nights with each other as well. Then when we went away it was so hard to see each other (only some weekends). Well he ended up breaking up with me on our 2 in a half years, because he said it didnt feel the same anymore. That day i specifically remember him saying he thinks he might have made the biggest mistake of his life. But of course i kept calling him and texting him constantly and it just pushed him further away. It got to the point where he completely ignored me.
Well now its been 9 months since we broke up. I stopped texting and calling him as much, maybe text him like twice a week. We meet each other like once a week to just “mess around” (after all he was my first) He hugs me everytime we leave too. I feel like the sparks are still there but at the same time i dont know because when i text him to meet me he will ignore me most of the time, sometimes he will be like “im busy sry” if he cant, but sometime he just wont answer. But when he asks me to meet him i always text back. When we see each other at parties its like we dont even no each other, MAYBE a hi but thats it. Sometime i feel like he doesnt want anyone knowing we talk because ppl will think he likes me again…I tell him i just want to be friends and maybe hang out every now and then and it doesnt have to be just us two. But he just says idk maybe.
I feel like no one understands how hard this is for me STILL. I thought i was over him, but im not. I don’t think i ever will be. I love him. And im just asking for some advice that could help me get back with him. I will do whatever it takes. I know it will take a lot of time, but i need someone to please give me some advice. Love is the most amazing feeling in the world, and he was the most amazing guy. We were perfect together….
Please and thank you! 
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