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D M asked:


i have been in a relationship with a girl for 5 months now, i recently brought up the idea of committment and this really scared her away., she is scared of committment and was not sure if this was a long term relationship, so we eventually broke up yesterday. We ended it on good times, we do both hold alot of respect and likeability for one another. if i was to want her to come back to me, what are some ways i can do or show her over time to make this happen? we are both age 24, mature young adults here.

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Abbi asked:


My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. We have been living together for 5 months. I am a Pediatric Technician. While my boyfriend is a Pediatric surgeon. When we started dating he was in an awful divorce. A month ago his ex-wife became the chief of our Pediatric area. Before that she was planning to make my life a living hell. Now she gets to let her dreams become fufilled! I was becomming annoyed with the dispute so I invited Amy to dinner to see if we could become friends or at least aquanticies. The whole time she was touching and flirting with Eric. I went into the kitchen to get something, when I saw her try to kiss him! He stopped her and was like “You are hear to talk to Abigale, not kiss me.” Then she started talking smack about me. Thats when Eric said “She is everything that you weren’t when we were married. She is still everything than you now.” She walked out and drove away. Since then she has been eveywhere where Eric goes. Should I watch my back and Amy?

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Sexy G asked:


i dumped my ex for a dumb reason 5 months ago, only contacted her once ( but she didnt reply well…so i stopped contacting her thinking she was still hurt)

she contacted my out of the blue yesterday…i replied to her text immediately cos i was really excited and felt a lil guilty too..

how do i get her back without being pushy, manipulative etc

do you think making her jealous…seeing with other girls will work???

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you_new_friend asked:


We dated for 5 months. Both 33 yrs. We haven’t seen each other for 2 months. It’s a mutual break up but mainly he wanted out but didn’t say that. I got the hint didn’t contact him. I did ignore him to upset him too in the relationship. So, I regret it cuz I love him and I should treat him better.

After 3 weeks then I emailed once say hi. He texted me once and IM me 2 times when I offline. But no plan to talk to me or meet up.

I saw him online for hours yesterday, and lost my control say Hi to him, At the end, he said he’d call me the next two days, BUT he didn’t. I feel so bad, I thought there is a hope but now I know it’s over and I shoudn’t initiate any contact. Then 2 days later, he IM say hi. What does he want?

How do you think the chance that I can get him back? Sent him love letter? I havn’t said ” I love you” to him, shoul I say it now? It will help? He said he loved me before.

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writergal_mpls asked:


It has been one month since my ex boyfriend broke up with me over some trust issues I had with him.

He was previously married for 9 years and has only been divorced for almost a year now. Before me, he dated another woman for 5 months and he broke up with her the same way he did with me; he withdrew emotionally, physically and picked fights with her then broke up with her over the phone. He told me he did this once he realized he was no longer in love with her.

I know he probably broke up with me because he is probably rebounding from being married for so long. I don’t think he’s dealing with the emotional aftermath of getting divorced in the best way, by dating women so soon after the end of his marriage.

But I can’t help wonder if I can successfully win him back, even though he broke up with me.

I emailed him last week and asked him to meet with me to talk but he sent me an email back refusing:

“I understand meeting to clear the air but honestly I do not see us getting back together. Honestly, there are too many things that I need to work through and I just don’t see us being togther. With that being said I don’t think that I will be seeing you today. Sorry.”

So, what do you think? Should I keep trying or just give up?

We’re both in our late 30s by the way.

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