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My bf decided to go back to his ex wife?
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but since he’s still here, he still wanna go out with me but he said it’s my choice if i still want to or not. he said he’ll try to work out stuffs w/ the ex but we can still keep in touch and he said he will come back to me. am i being stupid to be w/ him right now until he leaves and then keep in contact w/ him when he is w/ his ex wife? help me. i’m so confused and tired already
Winning Back Your Ex
but since he’s still here, he still wanna go out with me but he said it’s my choice if i still want to or not. he said he’ll try to work out stuffs w/ the ex but we can still keep in touch and he said he will come back to me. am i being stupid to be w/ him right now until he leaves and then keep in contact w/ him when he is w/ his ex wife? help me. i’m so confused and tired already
Winning Back Your Ex
17 Comments
January 20th, 2010 at 2:11 am
yeah your stupid
January 22nd, 2010 at 1:16 am
yes, that’s stupid.
January 23rd, 2010 at 5:05 pm
if he wants to try to work stuff out with his ex, then you should back off
maybe be wants to get back together with her or wants to friends with her
January 24th, 2010 at 4:22 am
Stupid? No. Naive? YES.
He’s wanting to have his cake and eat it too….and you’re considering letting him? Do you really want to be nothing more than the booty call on the side? Don’t you think you deserve better than that? Don’t you want to be with a man who wants only YOU? Kick his asss to the curb, sweetheart…you will never have nothing but misery with this guy, and I feel terribly sorry for his ex if he gets back together with her.
January 25th, 2010 at 11:44 pm
Tell him to f*ck off!
Move on, and find a new man.
January 28th, 2010 at 4:26 pm
Yep..stupid. He is using you as a convenience.
January 31st, 2010 at 12:40 am
Okay, my summary of this is….he’s told you he wants to be with his ex, but he’ll keep you on the side, just in case that doesn’t work out for him.
Does that describe it pretty well? If so, I think you need to wish him the best of luck, show him the door, and move on with your life.
February 2nd, 2010 at 8:00 am
you are allowing yourself to be used, as a replacement for his wife, when they are in disagreement.
Leave him, or ask him to leave, and find someone who is going to love you and treat you with you respect.
Respect yourself enough to not allow this to happen in the future.
February 2nd, 2010 at 11:42 am
He is trying to keep you as a backup in case things dont work out with his ex-wife…walk away because chances are he will only hurt you in the end…dont fall for it.
February 3rd, 2010 at 7:49 am
girl please he wants to go back to his ex probably cuz he loves her somewhat but he just wants to have you on the sideline so he can bone you whenever he wants and if the ex turns him down he’ll still have someone to blow him
February 3rd, 2010 at 12:11 pm
Move on. Don’t play the fool and be stupid. He’s keeping an open door incase it doesn’t work out with his X again. And btw……..it will not work out! I know this for fact! How do I know you ask? Because if he is keeping an open door with you then he is not fully committed to her and leading her on and causing her to be the fool and stupid as well. Why not tell the wife? HA…evil yes I know but he wants his cake and eat it too, I would call him up short and let her know exactly what he’s up to and then he won’t have either one of you.
February 4th, 2010 at 8:23 pm
I agree with Kimberly about wanting the cake and eating it, too.
I would blame you for their marriage not working out. Can you handle that blame? And what if it doesn’t work out with you two?
Just do one couple a favor and let them try to work out their marriage. I wish my dad’s mistress would have done the same, the sl*t, but she didn’t. For that? I **** her.
February 7th, 2010 at 4:23 am
Yup, I’m sorry. Don’t even think about doing that. He is just going to keep hurting you, as he waffles back and forth, but at the end you will come out the loser. Don’t let him have you both – that’s not fair to you. Just say goodbye. You will respect yourself better in the end.
February 9th, 2010 at 4:59 am
wtf? dont let him do that to you! he wants you as his rebound girl
i think you should just let him go back to his ex and make it clear that he will not be able to go back to you ever! you shouldnt be confused since he oviously wants her more he just wants to have you on the side.
unless you are willing to mantain that relationship which would only be about *** i suppose but you would have to fall out of love in order to do that
good luck
February 10th, 2010 at 2:07 am
IF he’s choosing his ex wife over you, then I would tell him GOOD BYE. What he’s asking is to have his cake & eat it too! This is NOT one bit fair to you, & you need to completely break ALL TIES so you can get on w/your life again. You NEED to be FREE so you can start a whole new beginning for yourself. He’s doing just what he wants, now it’s time for you to make the call on what you want. Do NOT let him come back to you. This is NOT one bit fair to YOU, he’s just plain being SELFISH. Do NOT see him, talk to him, or have anything to do w/him. This is HIS CHOICE, he made the decision of “her” over “you”, why should YOU do ANYTHING he wants! This is SO UNFAIR of him to even have the nerve to ask you to still keep in touch w/him even. I’m being HONEST w/you, I’m telling, not even suggesting to you, because I CARE what this “person” is trying to pull over on you! Stick to you decision, once he leaves your place, MAKE SURE he has NO excuse to even contact you again..Fair is FAIR!!! Start a whole new beginning for YOU, & find someone who w/treat you as you deserve to be treated! You ARE worth it!!! Best to you…:)
February 10th, 2010 at 11:11 am
Yes. Dredge up an ounce of self-respect (since he clearly doesn’t have any for you) and delete his number.
February 12th, 2010 at 5:11 pm
yes, leave his sorry ***. at least he had the dignity to tell you what he’s gonna do.