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Is it possable to stay good friends with your ex wife?
Byshannon g asked:
Me and my wife separated 2 months ago. I am still madly in love with her. When and if we get a divorce I would love to remain friends as much *** possible. can this be done or do I need to forget?
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Me and my wife separated 2 months ago. I am still madly in love with her. When and if we get a divorce I would love to remain friends as much *** possible. can this be done or do I need to forget?
Fast Fix Relationship
8 Comments
November 18th, 2009 at 2:18 am
yes you can remain friends because umaybe u make better friends than lovers.
November 20th, 2009 at 9:38 am
yes it’s possible
November 20th, 2009 at 7:17 pm
if you are so in love with her, why aren’t you trying to work things out with her?
Marriage takes work, if you love her so much… I guarantee if you divorce you will regret not trying harder to make it work.
Friends with exes is a waste of time… just move in with your life if you want to divorce. If you love her, then stop denyiing what you want and go fix your marriage!
November 21st, 2009 at 10:04 pm
yes, my parents divorced more than ten years ago.. they are best friends!
November 23rd, 2009 at 2:35 am
i think its better for u and her to forget and move on, because wen yr so in love with someone and separated then better move on.
November 24th, 2009 at 12:49 am
Dont be ridiculous. You are madly in love with the woman and “friends” cant be done without acting, being false and suffering…so dont even go there. Better you find someone else than do that.
November 27th, 2009 at 3:53 am
Well I do think that is nice of you, but it does not always work out this way unfortunatley! Good Luck!
November 29th, 2009 at 9:09 am
I would suggest you not even try to be friends until at least a year has past, sometimes it takes a lot more time. If you try to be her ‘friend’ and you are still in love with her, saying you want friendship is just another way of staying in her life. You can’t just suddenly change your feelings of love into a platonic relationship while your wounds are still fresh. It will just prolong your misery; your feelings for her will still that of a husband and no matter how hard you try those feelings will dictate how you react. Unless you both find a way to make your marriage work you need to let go.