Question by exkiieroh: I sent an inbox message to my ex-boyfriend on facebook, please tell me what you think!?
well, a little background… well, i had this boyfriend who was completely amazing and i took advantage of him. and now i can’t stop thinking about him. i love him. he’s expelled from my school the rest of the year and he’s grounded. i sent him an inbox message on facebook… he won’t see it for awhile, unless he sneaks on facebook. but i was wondering if you could read it and tell me what you think, if it’s too pathetic or whatever. it’s really long though, just a warning… and please don’t tell me i’m a bitch or anything, i already know that. just tell me if you think the message will make a difference… if he’ll get the real message of what i’m trying to say, or if it just seems like a big joke. thanks.
i’m probably the last person you want to talk to, or hear from. and i know you hate me for everything i’ve done to you. and i’m glad. please hate me. despise me. use a picture of me as a dart board. i don’t blame you. and i know it’s really out of nowhere that i’m messaging you. but it’s been killing me that i can’t see you or talk to you everyday. i don’t want this to sound like some stupid message asking for your sympathy, because it’s not. and i really don’t wanna let my feelings out this way, but there’s no other way to do it. i also know i won’t get a reply for awhile, maybe even a year. but it doesn’t matter because i need to say everything i’m gonna say. well, i regret everything. e v e r y t h i n g i’ve ever done to you. breaking up with you, being a bitch to you, fighting with you, causing any drama i could… it was all so stupid. yes, i’m a stuck-up, self-centered bitch. i dumped you for some hot popular guy who only wanted a hook up. when what i really had was a guy who loved me (or who said he did). and the worst part was you were willing to take me back. and then i really took it too far… i hurt you. i shit-talked you, i fought with you, i tried to make you as miserable as possible. and it was all out of jealousy. that note amber gave me to give you… well, i read it. something about her liking you and that she didn’t wanna hurt you… i felt pushed aside. and i know breaking up with you gave you the right to date anyone you wanted. but i still liked you. i never gave you that note, i said i threw it away. thing is, it’s still in my biology notebook, sitting in the very front, taunting me. yes, i’m a drama queen, i live for it. and i probably always will. that’s the only reason i can’t keep a boyfriend for my life. not that i’ve ever even had a boyfriend that’s cared about me like you did… i took advantage of what i had. and i was planning to change, and fix everything. and then… you got expelled. and i haven’t seen you since. my new seat in history is right next to yours. and that kills me every 7th period. this sounds really conceited, i mean, you’re in one room all day long. and grounded. and i’m just sitting here complaining. but i really miss you, rick. this is gonna sound really creepy… but you know that voicemail you left me the very first time you called me? i locked it… haha, september 23 at 8:56 pm. and i play it every now and again. speaking of you calling, i have a little confession… i was never out of minutes. i don’t particularly like talking on the phone with people, especially not a guy. i’m really self-conscious. and you made me feel so special. and i know you’ve forgotten about me, and you’ve moved on and you’re most likely tired of even seeing my name, and i don’t want it to sound like i’m begging for you to take me back, because i’m not. i don’t expect you to do that for me. i just need to let you know that i love you. i meant it the very first time i said it to you, and i mean it right now. i really didn’t know what i had when we were together. and i won’t see you for a year so it’s just pointless writing this but i needed to tell you. i can’t stop thinking about you, i can’t listen to love songs, or watch movies or shows with any characters that have your name… it’s horrible. sorry sorry, i’m complaining again. ugh, i don’t even know what to say anymore… please don’t get mad for me saying this. i really don’t expect you to feel the same after everything… i don’t think i even deserved everything you’ve ever done for me. just know that i’m in love with you… and that even if you hate me, i would still treat you with the same respect i treat my friends. well, i guess that’s it… bye.
he will read it. he’s sent me way longer before. give serious answers, don’t tell me it’s long because i warned you all that it was long.
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Answer by Cosmini
you’re going to bore the snot out of him
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Too long to read..
there is not way he wasted his time reading that….
Roast RUMP alll dah way
Oh boy, if we don’t want to read this, he won’t read that either.. =
way too long.
Well i actually did read it, and here’s what i think:
It’s very dramatic. It will be horrible for him to read because it’s basically a list of things reminding him how mean you were to him which is just going to bring up bad memories and hurt him all over again…and seeing as you havent asked him any questions or told him anything especially important, it just kind of feels like you’re only saying it to get at him.
You’re obviously a drama queen – which is fine, as you already admitted you are. But maybe you should have channelled your writing abilities into writing a monologue or script or something more productive than this message…
Also, you sound quite young. I’m quite young too (18) and i know, like you probably do deep down, that in a year you’ll be a very different person and things like this wont matter to you as much, so if you havent already sent this message, i suggest you dont, as… ultimately, you’ll just end up hurting him again for no reason. He’ll have gotten over you in a year anyway most probably.
Sorry… good luck though. x
It’s kind of long, but I’m sure if he still cares for you he’ll just be glad you talked to him. I know you said not to say it but, I’ve gotten taken advantage of by a boy I loved. He told me he loved me, never leave me, only wanted me, only cared for me, blah blah blah the b.s. goes on and on. Basically he broke up with me after 2 days and lied about the reason and never spoke to me again. I’ve never been hurt worse in my life. It feels awful. I still feel pain from it and I miss him. But hopefully whatever you’ve done can be un-done. Just hope this boy is forgiving..and learn from your mistake.
I READ ITTTTT
xx
I think he’ll get the picture! I dont know what you did to him or how he feels about you or anything, but if he doesnt hate you then im sure he’ll atleast want to be friends with you again (if your not friends already :L )
Good luck with everything
Look if he’s you’re ex then you shouldn’t be sending him any messages. It’s over. I’m not complaining about the fact that it’s long. I’m just saying it’s over so he’s not going to want communication with you. It makes you seem needy