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I LOVE MY EX BF HOW DO I GET HIM BACK ?? :(((?
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i dated him for 2 months and we were together for 3 months
i know it seems quick to say but i fell in love with him and he said he fell in love me he had a long distance relationship i could only see him weekend we our relationship was on an off but we would always make things work in the end we would talk text each other every day i really did love him
and he said he would do anything for me and i believed him but then then i kind felt him drifting away an we were hanging out at his house he starts telling how i have competition and how these girls would treat him better than i did an out of no where he brakes up wit i was heart broken i thought we fix things like e we usually would but the next thing i know he tells me he has new gf
we have been broken up for 3months already an im still not over him i try dating but he always on my mind we still hang out sometimes we hooked up a few times after our brake up but i still love him hes had several gf after me and he always says that he kinda wants to be single but he also wants relationship what does that mean and can i do to get back together with him??? or if i should just move on ((
i dated him for 2 months and we were together for 3 months
i know it seems quick to say but i fell in love with him and he said he fell in love me he had a long distance relationship i could only see him weekend we our relationship was on an off but we would always make things work in the end we would talk text each other every day i really did love him
and he said he would do anything for me and i believed him but then then i kind felt him drifting away an we were hanging out at his house he starts telling how i have competition and how these girls would treat him better than i did an out of no where he brakes up wit i was heart broken i thought we fix things like e we usually would but the next thing i know he tells me he has new gf
we have been broken up for 3months already an im still not over him i try dating but he always on my mind we still hang out sometimes we hooked up a few times after our brake up but i still love him hes had several gf after me and he always says that he kinda wants to be single but he also wants relationship what does that mean and can i do to get back together with him??? or if i should just move on ((
he has a gf right now he says he loves her but doesnt seem like cuz he cheated on with me
i know hes a big flirt but i just let him go and for some reason every time i want to distance myself from him he wont let me ((
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7 Comments
December 21st, 2009 at 7:02 am
i know i know how to fix his flirting part… buy some pepper spray and then spray it in his food. or all over his clothes.
December 22nd, 2009 at 5:28 pm
kill his gf
December 23rd, 2009 at 10:28 am
you should move on. he is ex for a reason. when you break a glass you can put it back together but you will always be able to see the cracks, same with relationship
December 26th, 2009 at 10:28 am
You don’t love him, you are infatuated with him because he demeaned you, he treated you like crap and used you. You have so little confidence and low self esteem you want to go back for more. I have been there, nd once I grew confident, he wanted me back and I laughed in his face because I was no longer pathetic, it was him who was the idiot all along.
Go out, get your hair cut, take up an exercise class, read some books, make some more friends and forget the looser.
December 29th, 2009 at 7:41 pm
If he broke up with you because someone else would “treat him better”, he probably didn’t love you to begin with (not to mention he cheated on you). If you try to get him back by treating him even better than his current gf, it probably wouldn’t last, since a guy of that sort would probably just try to keep moving on up, so he’d just break up with you again when someone more appealing comes along.
I would say you’d be much better off moving on, forget about him. Find someone else, or just stay single for awhile and enjoy the benefits of less drama and more time for your own life.
January 1st, 2010 at 1:15 pm
the ONLY reason y guys say they love their GF is to make them happy and hope they put out im sorry but that is the real deal im a guy and i know its an *** move but when your a teenager your not looking for love your looking to get some its all because of are hormones, its something we cant change but if you really want him back talk to him and say you guys will have more fun with eachother and u guys will prob get back together
best of luck!
January 3rd, 2010 at 1:34 am
Ok, theirs two things in regards to this I want to try put in perspective & I really hope I can help you with this too.
Firstly, in regards to getting him back you must cut off the contact, not only does this heal you (which is the main thing you need to concentrate on right now), but while you are there & in the picture he’s got everything he wants al the time, he’s not going to have a chance to miss you or realise that what you & him had was good, I know cutting contact with someone you care about is amazingly hard, trust me when I say I know this, but it’s something you have to do, I can;t say how long for, you couldn’t even put a time limit on these things yourself because you don’t know how you are going to feel, it could be months, maybe more, maybe less, but the truth is you need to concentrate mainly on healing & while you are allowing yourself to be in this situation you are constantly hurting yourself, which is something you need to be able to stay clear from, you can;t be involved with him while it’s hurting you, it’s not fair & it’s selfish on his behalf also.
Secondly, you say about long distance, now I’m not going to be someone who disses long distance relationships because they can work just as much as any other relationship can work however the main thing you guys have here is the TRUST problem, something that’s very important in any relationship, let alone a long distance one, if he’s cheated with you on her then who’s to say he wouldn’t cheat on you, chances are he probably would & the things he’s said to you have not been very nice at all.
Seriously, for now I’d concentrate on healing & every time it hurts remind yourself on why you need to heal & do this, you are going to end up stuck in a situation that’s going to constantly hurt you otherwise & in the end possibly end up with nothing once he doesn’t want to know & while you are always around & giving him what he wants he’s never gonna realise before you get to that point, which he needs to realise he has a good thing in you before he gets to the point of not wanting to know (He’s not going to see the value in you while you’re always around allowing this to happen).
I really hope I’ve helped here & I do truly hope that you end up happy, theirs a think called Karma you know … and it’s usually these people that get hit with that later in time as you cannot treat people the way he’s been treating you, it will inevitably come round at some point & you won’t have to do anything.
I wish you absolute luck here & hope it all works out nicely for you !!!!