file a restraining order. lol

Have her killed. Or have your husband grow some balls and tell her to get lost.

try the “Scott Peterson”method

just do what i do and rell her to stay out of ur business

be the adult of the situation. try not to let her bother you, maybe talk to your husband about her behaviour.

your husband needs to step in and tell her to back off!!
the only conversations that need to go on between any of you is the care and well being of the children. do not lower yourself to her standards by kicking her azz… it will only get you thrown in jail and that may be the one thing she is looking for…to say SEE I TOLD YOU SO….
just put all your efforts in the children.. ONLY

What you might do is tell her that you presently are unable to talk however when you have a moment you will get back to her.
Don’t call as you know she will call you anyhow. What you are doing is good for you but you don’t need an android to be a complete copy of you. You don’t have to answer what your doing even though you can be respectful of her requests advise her you don’t want a clone of yourself.
the other thing is that you really do not have to respond.
Just let her know that don’t know. From one moment to the next what you will be doing or what you are doing.
Ta da.
Advise her that you are a very busy woman and just have to go.
Wishing you all the best of luck
what a pain that must be always having her in your face.

Good luck my lady

Just be as nice as you can be but don’t let her get too involved. Don’t be afraid to tell her something isn’t any of her business, but try your hardest to be kind. After all, she is the mother of your husband’s children and there’s always some baggage in that type of situation. No one says you have to be friends with her but it is very important to remain civil with her for your family’s sake!

I dunno, maybe she is doing this in a snide or nasty way because according to your description of her actions, she sounds like she is just trying to be pleasant, or just may not exactly know how to carry on a normal conversation with you.

They say, “Imitation is the highest form of flattery”. Maybe she is impressed by you.

Relax a little. You got the man, so no need to fan it in her face. She is an ex for a reason. Enjoy your husband and family and ignore her.

Tell her random off the wall (fictional) things about your husband to shock her. She will probably confront him about it so have a game plan ready for him to confirm what you say. If she asks where you are going, name a place on the opposite side of town. That should teach her.

just sllllllllloooooooooowwwwwwwww wayyyyyyy down. It will get anyone off your back eventually. People get tired of waiting for you to actually do something they can complain about or comment on. Silly to say, sleeping all day on that heating pad, “you really are doing that wrong.”

When the going gets tough, become less efficient.

All the crazy stressed out people will leave you alone eventually if you do that.

well first of all what kind of a relationship do you have with her???? you see i am that ex wife but i have the problem with his new girlfriend she is a bit jealous of me why i have no idea i don’t call the guy at all unless i have to go pick up our kids and even then i call his mother so like this i don’t give him problems. I would just tell her straight up hey mind your business

Ask your husband to have her visit the children at the park or a restaurant, someplace other then where you are and not in your home. This is your marriage you make the rules. He should be fine with this, but make sure you tell him why you would rather she not come around you.

+ Ask your husband what things really annoy her. Hope he can tell you a pile of them. Then start doing them and try to talk about nothing else to her. she will hopefully get frustrated and leave you alone. Maybe there is a song or sound that really gets to her(like fingernails on a chalk board and then get a recording of it and play it for background music) Tell her you think it is soothing and relieves your stress. This works pretty well for the tel la sales people also.
Good Luck

Been there. I made mine leave the state, when the kids visited, no personal info was discussed & all personal pics etc were put away. Nothing to tell mommy about. Really ticked her off & I got a good laugh at her desperation for info.
We’re divorced now, but I still laugh about it.

Confront her non confrontationally. In other words, address her and the situation person to person, say- over coffee, and let her know that your private life and your husbands are of no consequence or concern of hers. Ask her to please stop invading your privacy, and if there is anything else that she wants to know about you, then alll correspondence should be directed to who shivs a git.

try to be her friend…instead of getting mad at her for doing things that you do…be flattered about her wanting to be like you.You know that no matter how much she tries to copy you that she will never be you vice versa. Next time you see that she has done something u did…compliment her….kill her with kindness….after all…if there are children involved….u need to be civil with her for the sake of ur marriage because the bottom line is that those kids come first….even if they are not yours….u came into an already shaped family….ur job is to try to find your place in that family and make it as pleasant as possible….goog luck

I would tell her that she needs to live her life and let me live mine. (It sounds like she is jealous and has never gotten over her ex husband. )You would like to have a civil relationship between you because of the children, but if she doesn’t keep stocking you then you will be forced not to have any thing to do with her.

There are alot of complications with relationships. It may also depend on how close they were before and the kids. She’s there forever so she may do what ever it takes to keep testing you.
Hopefully she isn’t that ignorant where she would try anything with the kids.
But she may be just getting used to everything. It may have already been awhile but kill her with kindness. They say it but it may work. So will have nothing bad to say and may get irritated and then stop. Worth a shot.

Good luck.

To me, it sounds as if the ex is not ready to let go of her “old” family, or she may still hold a special place in her heart for your husband. She may claim that she doesn’t want to hear about your lives, but in fact, that is what motivates her to stay involved with your family. Obviously, if children are part of the situation, she will need to stay in the picture. But, maybe you and your husband (if he’s a willing party), can make an effort not to share personal details about what you’re planning. For instance, you say she’s interested in doing what you do. But, if you don’t tell her that you’re planning a vacation for two, headed out for the weekend, going here or there with the kids, she doesn’t have the chance to mimic your activities. Even the simplest details (where you and your husband are going for dinner) can be used in the wrong way.

If you don’t have children, then you are free and clear to cut her completely out of the picture. She is, after all, an ex-wife. And unless she and your husband have an agreement to stay extremely cordial, the less contact you have with her the better. She may have severe jealousy issues and you should block all contact until her “flame” for your husband dies out. If you find that she is still bothering you, consider changing your phone number (unlisted or blocked), or simply screen your calls. If she comes to the door, don’t answer it. It’s a simple matter of not allowing conversation to happen between the two of you. However, if you happen to meet in town, simply smile and continue on your way. You, after all, are the one with the happy marriage and the man you love!

think about ways to kill her everytime she opens her mouth. that would help me. i would never try to involve my self in my ex’s life. not even when it comes to my kids. as long as they don’t complain about any stupid girl my ex decides to introduce to her to my kids i could care less. (but then i’m the type of person that HOPES my ex will get a girlfriend one day. i truely believe there has to be another stupid female out there. i can’t be as dumb as they get)
Keep all conversations limited to the children only. if she even goes in a different direction…..hang up on her.