How do I get my ex boyfriend back? Please help?
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About a month ago my bf and i broke up it was kinda a mutual split tho alot of rumors were circling and i believed 2 of them the first was that he was hiting on another girl and trying to cheat on me the second was that he was going to break up with me so naturaly i wanted it over as quickly as possible so nobody would feel any heartbreak. By lunch we were together still and i pulled him aside spoke calm and rational told him that things wurnt working out about the rumors and everything when he realized what was going on he started to agree and then he said so its over and i shook my head yes then he said so we can still be friends right and i said yes and we went our seprate ways. And then by 4th hour i was missing him nearly in tears because there is a gaping hole in my heart and still is and know i want him back i dream of him everynight and cry i am InLove with him. Please help me!!
Questions:
Did he break up with me or me with him?
How do i get him back ?
Any others im not thinking of
Also:
Yes I am sure im InLove with him.
I am 13 and in the 8th grade.
So is he.
He is my first love.
Yes im sure.
How he acts around me is
He stares at me.
Looks in my eyes then looms down at the ground.
He trys to make me laugh.
He trys to be closer to me at lunch.
Brushes by me in the halls
Mimics people when im impressed with them.
Listens to my conversations
Ect.
Does he still like me?
Oh and he has said i love you before
by the way every1 i no who started the rumors it was my suppost2be best friend (gosphil) singer/songwritler Emily Carey she got jelsous and i belived her when she told me the gossip but she was just being petty because she is usally in the spotlight and we had gotten into a fight and after everything was fine she told me that.
Winning Back Your Ex
4 Comments
December 11th, 2009 at 11:55 pm
Haha im 13 and in 8th so is my gf
But i think he does
Talk to him and tell him your feelings
December 12th, 2009 at 9:18 am
Well, i think its sort of difficult to decide who split up with who but i don’t think either of you really wanted to do it. Maybe he just agreed so he didn’t look silly. If he still acts this way around you it could be that he still likes you. I know that 13 is young and all, but i don’t think age should make a difference to how you feel. Just talk to him privately about it if you want him back. Say that the rumours you heard stressed you out a bit and you made a rash decision. Ask him if he knew anything about how the rumours got started or something. You could risk being turned down if he decides he doesn’t want to be with you but in my opinion, you both still like each other, you just gotta be honest and work through it. Talking is the best thing you can do in a relationship and remember: if you don’t try, you’ll never know and that is what stops you from moving on. Good luck xx
December 15th, 2009 at 5:49 am
you dont
help me?
December 17th, 2009 at 9:35 pm
Hello
Winning back an ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win him back increase dramatically.
If you want to win your ex boyfriend back then these 3 simple steps should help achieve your goal:
1.The first tip is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of your negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don’t let your emotion and especially depression keep you down. You can’t get your goal, if you can’t keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Bad thoughts are destructive behavior and you need to avoid them.
2.Don’t annoy your ex boyfriend. Guys just don’t like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to seek comfort by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don’t continuously sms him, send emails to him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. It’s very important give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want you back. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting him back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it’s recommended to get some new makeup. more recommended things to get are new clothes and new hairstyle. If you’ve picked up a few pounds, start doing some exercises and try to eat healthy foods. When on the outside, you’re going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. If you will feel good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you’re confident and happy, others will easily see it. You will become an object of desire to men, this includes your ex boyfriend.
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