Feb
02
How can I get back with my ex boyfriend?
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daisyditz asked:
Me and My ex boyfriend are juniors in highschool. He broke up with me back in July after being in a relationship for 9 months mostly because I was VERY clingy. I used to talk to him everyday when we were together and constantly wanted to be with him, but now i can go days without saying a word to him. We were extremely close to eachother and our family’s and we both really loved eachother. The breakup was rough especially for me since I was the one who got dumped and it was totally unexpected. We had no communication for almost 4 months until we started talking again back in november and now we hangout at least once a week. I mean I really care about this kid because since we broke up I kissed 5 different guys but i could care less about them, it just doesn’t feel the same. We still kiss eachother and “hookup” and when we’re together he treats me as if im still his girlfriend, he pays for me whenever we go out, cuddles with me, and he isn’t afraid to kiss me at school or in front of his close friends, he even holds my hand in public. I finally brought it up that I’m starting to have feelings for him again last night after we spent the night together and he took me home and i started to cry because i told him i still care for him and have feelings for him, he listened to me but told me he doesn’t think I have changed my old ways and said he needed to think. So today i talked to him and asked him if he had thought about what i said last night and he said “Yeah.. I do have feelings for you but I don’t want a relationship with you not yet at least, I need to figure things out.” is this a good thing? how can i get him back ? :/
Winning Back Your Ex
Me and My ex boyfriend are juniors in highschool. He broke up with me back in July after being in a relationship for 9 months mostly because I was VERY clingy. I used to talk to him everyday when we were together and constantly wanted to be with him, but now i can go days without saying a word to him. We were extremely close to eachother and our family’s and we both really loved eachother. The breakup was rough especially for me since I was the one who got dumped and it was totally unexpected. We had no communication for almost 4 months until we started talking again back in november and now we hangout at least once a week. I mean I really care about this kid because since we broke up I kissed 5 different guys but i could care less about them, it just doesn’t feel the same. We still kiss eachother and “hookup” and when we’re together he treats me as if im still his girlfriend, he pays for me whenever we go out, cuddles with me, and he isn’t afraid to kiss me at school or in front of his close friends, he even holds my hand in public. I finally brought it up that I’m starting to have feelings for him again last night after we spent the night together and he took me home and i started to cry because i told him i still care for him and have feelings for him, he listened to me but told me he doesn’t think I have changed my old ways and said he needed to think. So today i talked to him and asked him if he had thought about what i said last night and he said “Yeah.. I do have feelings for you but I don’t want a relationship with you not yet at least, I need to figure things out.” is this a good thing? how can i get him back ? :/
Winning Back Your Ex
2 Comments
February 3rd, 2010 at 1:50 am
It be very hard if he only wants friendship maybe try friendship for a while and then maybe you could think about other stuff as getting him a boyfriend
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February 3rd, 2010 at 11:16 am
It sounds like things were going good but you wanted him to make a verbal commitment to you, which is totally fair, but he isn’t will ing to do that, so to me, you need to move on. If you start dating other people he will think to himself: “Did I miss out on something?” ESPECIALLY if you look HOT all the time! No hoodies, Baggy sweats, baggy jeans. I’m talking about HOT! If you are overweight lose it. If you have bad skin get some clearisil. He will straighten up and realize what he had, then come back. You may have met somebody who isn’t afraid of commitment by then that you really like, or maybe not and you get back with him. either way, you don’t twiddle your thumbs and wait for him to make up his mind about wether he wants you or not. That makes you feel bad.