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10
does making an Ex jealous work in winning them back?
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Sexy G asked:
i dumped my ex for a dumb reason 5 months ago, only contacted her once ( but she didnt reply well…so i stopped contacting her thinking she was still hurt)
i dumped my ex for a dumb reason 5 months ago, only contacted her once ( but she didnt reply well…so i stopped contacting her thinking she was still hurt)
she contacted my out of the blue yesterday…i replied to her text immediately cos i was really excited and felt a lil guilty too..
how do i get her back without being pushy, manipulative etc
do you think making her jealous…seeing with other girls will work???
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13 Comments
November 11th, 2009 at 3:49 am
No, I think that’s stupid. If you miss her, tell her. Be a man.
November 13th, 2009 at 11:04 pm
if someone wants you back because of jelousy and no other reason than the person will soon realize they liked you for the wrong reasons. the guaranteed way to know if she wants to be with you again is to take your time and start hanging out as friends again and slowly work it back in. cant happen overnight
November 17th, 2009 at 5:32 am
Very rarely.
Besides, what you are describing is the very epitome of manipulative. If you want to be mature about it, just talk to her and tell her you are sorry for whatever you did, and tell her how you really feel about her. If that works, great! If not, be a man and move on.
November 19th, 2009 at 6:02 pm
stop playing games, be real.
November 21st, 2009 at 6:51 pm
Making her jealous will not work … If you really want her back , just call her up and talk to her… try to work things out…and apologize.
Tell her that everyone deserves a 2nd chance, ask her to think about it and get back to you.
November 24th, 2009 at 10:15 am
no trust me it just makes them mad and want to move on.
November 27th, 2009 at 9:41 am
no don’t try this
i dumped my last boyfriend and he tried to make me jealous by being with other girls at my school football game
the only thing that got him was a nice punch and me kicked out of the game..lol
the best way is to simply talk to her tell slowly pull her back but DON”T try to make her JEALOUS this hurts girls alot and simply make **** you and listen to those dumb songs like before he cheats….lol
November 28th, 2009 at 4:15 pm
yes it works
December 2nd, 2009 at 3:42 am
No making someone jealous, It will back firer on you If you see her with other guys. The best thing to do is if you still have strong feeling for this girl that you still love her just come out and say it that you want her back! instead of playing these childish games.
December 2nd, 2009 at 8:29 am
Hey there,
I think that you need to test the waters first before you try to do anything! Remember, she didn’t talk to you or respond to you because you broke things off in a bad way, or something of the sort. She is not going to appreciate you very much if you win her back in a manipulative way. I don’t think that she will want to be with you out of jealousy. I think that you would want her to be with you because she WANTS to be with you and not because she can’t stand the sight of you being with someone else. Just try and win her trust by being friends with her. Recall that she probably suffered a lot when you broke up with her, and she needs to know that she can trust you. Be patient, don’t rush her into making a decision to be or not to be with you. Once she realizes that she can trust you and that she can have a great time with you she’ll be more inclined to agree to go out with you again. Patience is key, respect is also important otherwise she’ll run away. Don’t use any ploys to win her back because she DID contact you after all, it means that there is something there that you can work with. Don’t despair and just be yourself.
I hope this works.
December 3rd, 2009 at 10:50 pm
Was I ever a dumb guy? I guess I was. I would have said yes to that before I knew a little more about how women think.
If you ever do that she will never ever trust you. Whether or not you have a fling – there will never be trust.
Without trust there is no longevity. You should know that. All women know that.
To me, your idea sounds like a cruel way to put the final nail in the coffin of a sad relationship.
You may not be bf/gf, but there are enough enemies in this world do you feel okay to so casually throw away a person who could be a good friend?
December 4th, 2009 at 1:54 pm
Its really shallow to use jealousy to get someone back, and it will probably push her away instead. It will look like you just played her and now your on to other girls.
Try being nice and flitatious. Tell her breaking up was a mistake and you’re sorry.
December 5th, 2009 at 5:29 pm
Jealousy is a wasted emotion. It can lead to various feelings, such as resentment. How would you like it if she did that to you?