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Are you friends with your husband or wife’s ex?
Byblueeyed girl asked:
Do you get along with his or her ex or do you prefer to keep her/him out of your life?
How To Get My Ex Back
Do you get along with his or her ex or do you prefer to keep her/him out of your life?
How To Get My Ex Back
15 Comments
January 14th, 2010 at 10:06 pm
Why would you want a relationship with your husband’s ex? This can only prejudice your present relationship. Besides what do you expect to learn?
January 17th, 2010 at 12:59 pm
Well no because they don’t have anything to make us talk. Meaning there isn’t any children involved so, no. But if there were then yes i would at least try to be cordial if nothing else.
January 19th, 2010 at 1:31 pm
I have an ex-husband and I want him out of my life. If we didn’t have a son together I would never talk to him again.
January 22nd, 2010 at 8:48 am
Neither of us HAVE ex’s, but I bet I’d be friends with them.
I’m friends with everyone.
January 23rd, 2010 at 11:52 pm
Nope because this is his and mine first marriage
January 27th, 2010 at 3:47 am
No! My ex-husband married my fiancee’s ex-wife. So as you can tell, it would be impossible for us all to be friends. Yes I live a real-life wife swap. LOL
January 27th, 2010 at 8:41 am
we talk and occasionally go out even though my boy friend doesn’t like it we have a kid 2 getter so that is the main reason why we still talk but i think that we haven’t gotten over each other is because we still keep in touch so if u want 2 get over some one u just have 2 keep them out of ur life but if u don’t mind or it doesn’t hurt 2 talk 2 them then oh well just stay as friends… it also depends on the break up
January 29th, 2010 at 2:02 am
Keep! them out of your life, but be nice, when you see them.
January 31st, 2010 at 11:52 pm
yes we love each one
February 3rd, 2010 at 2:18 pm
Sort of. My Husband has a child with his Ex so I’m nice to her and we’re on a friendly basis. She has been a ***** to me a number of times but I just let it roll off my back. She’s a born again Christian now and since “finding Jesus” she’s become slightly nicer to me. I wouldn’t choose to hang out with her or anything but when there are kids involved you have to be civil. Her daughter and my daughter like each other and even had a sleep over once.
February 3rd, 2010 at 7:19 pm
Hell NO! She is effing NUTS! She cheated on him all the time while they were married (he tried to stay for his 2 daughters), they divorced and then when he and I met ( they were divorced 6 months when we met), she acted like I stole him from her! If there is anyone who needs some extreme counseling, it is def. her! His two girls are now 19 and 20, AND she still tries to cause trouble. What she doesn’t understand is, he is happy. Happy without her. Happy with me, and THAT pisses her off! LOL!
February 6th, 2010 at 5:30 pm
I would be civil, but she won’t be, so what can I do?
February 8th, 2010 at 5:01 pm
Are there children involved? If yes, then everyone needs to work on getting along. Co-parenting can actually be a positive experience if everyone keeps the kids’ best interest at heart.
Either way, it’s important to put the past behind you. If you feel secure in who you are and what you have to bring to the picture, you won’t feel threatened. Just live your life and focus on your relationship.
To answer the question: Yes, I have been. When everybody can “get over it,” it can actually be a valuable relationship. But it does take maturity on all sides. Otherwise, it’s a nightmare.
February 10th, 2010 at 2:33 pm
NO!! She is a friggin idiot!!
February 11th, 2010 at 10:49 pm
well.. i personally am not, but i do know that it can work.. my mother in law is very close with her ex husband (who raised my husband, and she also has 2 children with) we spend all our holidays all together, including her new husband and the ex’s wife and their son.. they even all went camping together over the summer.. I think that as long as everyone can be mature and realize that you are all adults and that those relationships are over, and enough time has passed to get rid of any hard feelings- it can definitely be done. but all parties have to be ok with it, or it wont work!! good luck